When we have a grandiosity personality type then we
are prone to anger outbursts. A person with grandiosity thinking may believe
that he or she was centered out from everyone else when he or she does not get his
or her way.
People with grandiosity attitudes will say things like that was a lousy idea since those people are
stupid anyway. A person of this nature may believe that other people would
have behaved the way that they did in a similar situation. There are many traits
to grandiosity that are disturbing and when a person has a disturbed mind, he
or she is prone to anger. This type of person will have a difficult time
dealing with stressors and stress and will often act out on emotions when they
feel threatened. This means they are prone to assaulting others intellect,
cursing at the problem, attacking another persons mental status, and even
acting out violently when they are mad. This type takes us to a whole knew
level of understanding anger, since a mental illness is often underlying the
emotions. A person of this magnitude of anger is known as a narcissistic
personality type. Paranoid schizophrenias, histrionic personality types and a
few other have a grandiosity personality underlying the diagnose. When we see
that a person is angry due to a mental illness then anger management may or may
not work. Most histrionic personality types are firm in their way of thinking,
therefore more extensive therapy is needed to deal with this type. If you
experienced anger outbursts, you realize that you feel remorse after the
interruption takes place. On the other hand, if you have a histrionic or
paranoid personality remorse is not in the picture. A person has to have a
sense of remorse to become subject to recovery in anger management. Although
the psychotherapist may find a resolve, it will be minimal. Unfortunately, in
some cases of this type of anger, there is no resolve and the patient may
eventually destroy another person’s life. Uncontrolled anger includes,
striking, hitting, punching, assaulting mentally, verbally assault, and even
murder. Now we are looking at a serious problem since anyone is at risk of
being subjected to these types of personality. A more common form of anger is a
mild name calling, such as you were acting
like a jerk. Alternatively, damn why did you do that? Some of us might even
say why you centered me out as a target to anger. The person will raise the
voice assertively, and often walk away when the person does not reply as he or
she intended. There are forms of anger that can be dealt with and some are
rooted from jealousy. Well, the world is acting out of accordance to man’s
beliefs most of the time so in a lot of instances there is just cause. The
problem is dealing with it so that it does not get the best of you. For example
if you are married and suspect that your spouse is having an affair you might
confront this person rather than accusing. Find out the details before you blow
up and cause a commotion. If the person is cheating then you have two options.
You can forgive the persons infidelity and move on or you can hire a lawyer and
find a more suitable, trusting mate. I would choose the latter since cheaters
are liars and thieves trying to get away with something, therefore the person
are not trustworthy in most cases. See the reasoning behind this? Of course, it
is going to hurt, but in the end, you will see that you made a good choice. If
you decide to stay with the person, remember your forgave so do not bring up
failures when another problem occurs. Failure is success flipped over and if
you review failure in a positive light, you problems will reduce as you move
forward in life. If you have a grandiosity personality, you will need help,
since the mountains are more difficulty for you to climb. Do not be a failure
control your anger before it controls your life. 
- Mohammed Zahran -
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